By: Elowen Gray
A new book, Make Another Me: The Michael Dean Glitch, explores a family’s raw reality, suggesting how perceived flaws can sometimes become unexpected sources of strength.
In a world often focused on striving for perfection, a new book offers a refreshingly honest look at the messy, complicated, and ultimately powerful nature of human imperfection. Make Another Me: The Michael Dean Glitch, written by Walter and Kenneth Forbes, isn’t your typical self-help guide. Instead, it’s a candid, unflinching memoir woven with street wisdom, family history, and a thought-provoking look at what they refer to as “glitches.”
At the heart of the book is the concept of the “Michael Dean Glitch,” a term coined by the Forbes family to describe a genetic predisposition toward significant mental health challenges. Named after their Uncle Michael Dean, a 75-year-old man with the mental capacity of a four-year-old, this “glitch” has touched many in the family, from bipolar disorder and schizophrenia to addiction and volatile tempers.
But this isn’t simply a story of hardship. Instead, Make Another Me explores how these very “glitches” – the parts of our minds that don’t always line up as expected – can, in some cases, be a source of resilience and strength. Walter Forbes, the primary voice in the narrative, takes readers on a journey from the streets of Oak Park, Sacramento, through the confines of prison, and ultimately to earning an MBA and achieving success in the corporate world.
Through vivid and often surprising anecdotes, Walter illustrates how the same intense focus and drive that might lead to challenges on the streets can, with time, be redirected toward academic achievement and professional success. He shares stories of his father’s unconventional lessons in grit and survival, his brother Kenneth’s leadership in the harsh environment of prison, and the unwavering support of his Aunt Betty, who even purchased a house to ensure Walter and his sister were kept out of the foster care system.
The book introduces compelling ideas such as “flipping the switch” on your glitch, finding grit in adversity, and using language and intention to “rewire your brain” much like you would train a muscle. Walter’s personal narrative is filled with insights from his own experiences, his time in prison, and even the unexpected wisdom gained from playing chess and observing human behavior. He suggests that a strong vocabulary isn’t merely about sounding educated; it’s a tool for gaining perspective, managing conflict, and potentially improving mental health.
Make Another Me does not shy away from the difficult realities of impoverished communities, including the influence of gang culture, violence, and the systemic obstacles faced by individuals within the justice system. It offers a unique perspective from someone who has not only navigated these environments but has also found a path to success and is now working to help others do the same.
More than just a memoir, the book offers a roadmap for healing and personal growth. Walter and Kenneth Forbes share practical strategies for managing mental health challenges, building resilience, and potentially turning vulnerabilities into sources of strength. The inclusion of a “Relationship Agreement” template, designed to encourage clear communication and boundaries, reflects the book’s grounded approach to navigating life’s complexities.
Make Another Me: The Michael Dean Glitch is a thought-provoking read for anyone interested in understanding the complexities of human behavior, the effects of trauma, and the significant capacity for resilience. It challenges traditional views on mental illness and conveys a message of hope: that even the most deeply rooted “glitches” can be understood, managed, and perhaps even transformed into strengths that guide us toward a more intentional and successful life. It is a story that reminds us that sometimes, extraordinary strength can be found in embracing our imperfections.
