By: Zach Miller
Introduction
Author of the widely recognized From Struggle to Strength, Harry G. Psaros, was once a father who found it challenging to accept his son’s autism diagnosis. He transformed his pain into a purpose that now resonates with many parents. Today, he’s a neuroscience executive, author, and advocate for autism positivity. Through his book, Harry shares his personal growth as a dad determined to do better—not just for his son Gus, but for families everywhere facing similar challenges.
Harry speaks to fathers who might feel uncertain about how to support their children. He combines practical advice with the power of mindset. He is also a health coach, speaker, and community leader, known for giving his time to causes close to his heart. Through Psaros Publishing LLC, he shares a message that autism is not a limitation but an opportunity for growth and love. In this interview, Harry opens up about his journey, his son’s achievements, and his vision of a future where parents feel empowered.
1. Harry, your journey from neuroscience executive to autism positivity advocate is deeply personal. Can you share the pivotal moment that sparked this emotional shift in your life?
Harry G. Psaros: I have never considered myself an “autism positivity advocate,” but that title feels appropriate. Shortly after my son Gus was diagnosed, his school held a military appreciation day where he was tasked with introducing my late father, George, during a large event. For a young boy on the autism spectrum, this was no small feat. Yet, Gus stood up with courage and spoke about my father’s military service, marking a significant achievement for our family. It was a clear indication that the therapy he had been receiving was making a difference. Leaving the program, I felt an exhilarating rush and resolved that Gus would become “what good looks like,” serving as an inspiration for others on the spectrum. Remarkably, that vision has progressed, and it truly feels like a blessing.
2. You have described your work as a parenting movement rather than just advocacy. What makes this approach unique, and how does it impact families navigating the autism journey?
Harry G. Psaros: What makes my approach distinct is that I’m not speaking from a distance or offering theories—I’m speaking as a father who’s lived every step of the autism journey with my child. This is more than advocacy; it’s a parenting perspective because everything I share comes from real-life experience, not professional observation. I haven’t studied the struggle—I’ve lived it. I’ve fought through the confusion, the fear, the wins, and the setbacks, and I’ve come out the other side with insight that only comes from being in the trenches. My book isn’t a manual—it’s a roadmap from someone who’s walked the path, and that deeply personal perspective resonates with families who are looking not just for guidance, but for understanding and connection.
3. In your experience, how can shifting from a deficit-based view of autism to a strengths-based perspective transform the parent-child relationship?
Harry G. Psaros: Shifting from a deficit-based view of autism to a strengths-based perspective can profoundly improve the parent-child relationship by replacing discouragement with empowerment. Focusing on what a child cannot do does little to support their growth or confidence—in fact, it can be damaging. Instead, recognizing and reinforcing what a child on the spectrum is doing well serves as a powerful confidence booster and creates a nurturing environment where they feel seen and valued. Children, especially those on the spectrum, are highly sensitive to the energy around them and tend to thrive in homes filled with encouragement and positivity. Parents play a critical role in setting that tone; by choosing to highlight strengths rather than shortcomings, they help their child build self-esteem, resilience, and a stronger sense of identity.
4. Many fathers struggle with understanding and embracing a child’s autism diagnosis. How do you address these emotional and cultural barriers in your work?
Harry G. Psaros: In my work, I address the emotional and cultural barriers many fathers face in accepting an autism diagnosis by confronting these challenges with honesty, empathy, and cultural awareness. I recognize that machismo, ego, and emotional stoicism can prevent men from processing the reality of their child’s needs, often leading to denial, withdrawal, or misplaced frustration. I work to reframe what strength and masculinity truly mean in the context of fatherhood—emphasizing that real strength lies not in avoidance, but in presence, vulnerability, and unwavering commitment. Fathers must understand that their primary responsibility is to support their partner and be fully engaged in their child’s growth and development. Anything less is a disservice to their family and ultimately undermines their role as a man. This message is not meant to shame, but to challenge and elevate—because embracing the diagnosis and showing up every day, no matter how hard, is the truest measure of fatherhood.
5. Your background in neuroscience offers a scientific lens to your advocacy. How has this shaped your strategies for promoting autism positivity in everyday parenting?
Harry G. Psaros: My background in neuroscience deeply informs my approach to autism positivity in everyday parenting by grounding it in both scientific understanding and genuine hope. As an Executive Neuroscience Specialist, I work closely with neurologists and regularly engage in conversations about the brain’s adaptability, especially in the context of conditions like autism, ADHD, and Tourette’s Syndrome. This constant exposure reinforces my belief in neuroplasticity—the brain’s remarkable ability to change and grow. Influenced by the work of experts like Dr. Robert Melillo, I emphasize to parents that their child’s development is not fixed and that there are numerous, evolving modalities that can support progress. I use this scientific insight to empower parents, helping them see beyond diagnoses and focus instead on the potential within their child. With love, consistency, and informed strategies, I advocate for a future-oriented, strengths-based perspective that encourages determination and celebrates each step forward.
6. Looking ahead, what is your vision for the future of autism advocacy, and how do you hope your movement will influence the way society views and supports individuals on the spectrum?
Harry G. Psaros: Looking ahead, my vision for the future of autism advocacy is centered on reshaping the narrative—one that begins with hope, positivity, grit, and resilience. I want parents to see a diagnosis not as a limitation, but as a call to rise with strength and compassion for their children. Children on the autism spectrum deserve encouragement, not pity; they need support, not judgment. Through my book and ongoing work, I aim to shed light on the real challenges families face, while also celebrating the victories—big and small—that come with raising a child on the spectrum. My hope is that, through my voice, others will learn to approach these families with empathy, patience, and genuine kindness. I’m determined to be a leading male voice in autism advocacy, using my platform to inspire change, shift perceptions, and build a more inclusive society. This mission is personal—and it’s far from over.
Summary
Harry G. Psaros has turned his family’s story into a source of strength for others. His willingness to be open about his own struggles has made him a relatable guide for parents on the autism journey. Through From Struggle to Strength, Harry reminds families that growth begins with acceptance. His work encourages fathers to step forward and embrace a role that is active, loving, and informed. Furthermore, through his leadership roles in organizations like the Autism Caring Center and his outreach as a speaker, he is proof of what happens when a parent chooses action over fear. He believes every child deserves support, and every parent has the power to create it.
Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is intended for general informational purposes only and reflects the personal experiences and perspectives of Harry G. Psaros. It does not constitute professional advice in parenting, autism advocacy, or related fields. Readers are encouraged to seek tailored advice from qualified professionals for specific concerns regarding autism or parenting.
