By: Elena Mart

For women divorcing after decades of marriage, the process often comes with unexpected pitfalls. Nanette Murphy, a Divorce & Life Reinvention Coach, explains why: “Lawyers are trained to handle the legal side of divorce, but they don’t always understand or prioritize the emotional, financial, and personal complexities. Without the right guidance, women can be taken advantage of—financially and emotionally—or find themselves stuck in drawn-out legal battles.”

Murphy is part of a growing movement advocating for a different approach. “Divorce is one of the most life-altering transitions a woman can face,” she says. “Your first call doesn’t have to be to a lawyer. Consider reaching out to someone who can holistically support you through this journey, like a coach.”

The Hidden Costs of Divorce

The financial toll of divorce can be staggering, and it’s not just about dividing assets. “Most women don’t realize how vulnerable they are financially until it’s too late,” Murphy explains. “Without a clear strategy, it’s easy to agree to unfavorable terms or get overbilled by legal teams who aren’t always acting in your best interest.”

While essential for legal representation, lawyers are not always transparent about costs. Many clients report feeling blindsided by mounting fees or drawn-out proceedings that could have been avoided with better preparation. “A good lawyer is important,” Murphy says, “Even skilled lawyers can sometimes make things more complex than necessary without someone to help keep the process focused and efficient.”

That’s where a divorce coach like Nanette makes all the difference. “I help women approach divorce with clarity and confidence,” she says. “I help people feel ready to work with their lawyer, understand their options, and maintain a sense of control throughout the process.”

The Three Stages of Divorce

Murphy’s coaching is designed to support women through the three critical stages of divorce: preparation, the divorce process, and the healing journey.

Stage One: Preparing for Divorce

Preparation is the foundation for a smoother divorce. Nanette’s “Preparing for Divorce with No Regrets” program equips women with the tools to enter the process on their terms.

“This isn’t just about gathering paperwork,” Murphy explains. “It’s about setting boundaries, understanding your goals, and helping you emotionally and financially prepared.”

One client, Lisa, recalls how Murphy’s guidance saved her from agreeing to a lopsided settlement. “Nanette helped me see the big picture,” Lisa says. “I walked into every meeting with my lawyer feeling confident and informed.”

Stage Two: The Divorce Process

The legal side of divorce can be overwhelming, especially when emotions run high. Nanette works alongside her clients, helping them stay focused and advocating for their best interests.

“Lawyers can sometimes get caught up in the fight,” Murphy says. “My job is to help my clients not be dragged into unnecessary disputes or overcharged for things that don’t matter. I help them stay grounded and make decisions that serve their long-term goals.”

Stage Three: Healing and Rebuilding

The final stage is where true transformation happens. Murphy’s “Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends” program is a 10-week journey that helps women heal emotionally and rediscover themselves.

“This is about stepping into your power and creating a new vision for your life,” Murphy says. “It’s not just about moving on—it’s about moving forward.”

A New Chapter Begins

Divorce is one of life’s most challenging transitions, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by its legal, emotional, and financial complexities. But as Nanette Murphy has shown, it doesn’t have to be a journey you face alone—or unprepared.

“Your divorce is the start of something new,” Murphy says. “With the right guidance, you can move through it with clarity and confidence, coming out stronger on the other side.”

Murphy’s clients consistently credit her with giving them the tools and support they need to reclaim their lives. “Nanette helped me see beyond the chaos,” says Sarah. “She showed me that my life wasn’t over—it was just beginning.”

Suppose you’re facing divorce or considering it. In that case, Murphy’s programs and coaching offer guidance through every stage of the process, from preparation to healing, helping women approach their futures with confidence and clarity.

To learn more about Nanette Murphy’s services, visit www.livelifenowwithpurpose.com. Schedule a consultation at go.oncehub.com/CoachingWithNanette or email nmurphy.livelifenow@gmail.com.

As Murphy puts it, “Divorce isn’t the end. It’s a new beginning and your chance to create a life you deserve.”

Published by Zane L.