In a world where quality mental health care often feels out of reach, finding a therapist who offers more than just textbook solutions is critical. Danielle Roxborough, LMFT, the founder of Love Is a Verb Counseling, offers a refreshing approach to relational therapy that transcends the limited quality of modern-day App-platform therapy. Danielle’s practice stands out by blending therapeutic expertise with a genuine, holistic philosophy—one rooted in the belief that love is not passive but an active choice. Self-love, and love for others, included. Love Is a Verb Counseling offers a transformative path forward for couples and individuals seeking healing in their personal lives and relationships.
A Philosophy of Action
At the heart of Danielle’s practice is a core belief: “Love Is a Verb.” This simple yet profound statement reflects her conviction that love, like personal growth and healing, is an ongoing, active process. It is not enough to talk about love or connection; real change requires building insight, intention, and consistent action. For many who seek therapy, the feeling of being stuck—whether in relationships, personal challenges, or past trauma—stems from a lack of clarity on how to take those next steps. Danielle’s approach provides the tools and guidance necessary to make love and healing active forces in her clients’ lives.
Her practice focuses on helping people navigate complex emotional landscapes, equipping them with practical skills to improve their relationships and, more importantly, themselves. “Yes, love is an active choice, a verb. Healing yourself can pave the way towards healing your relationships with loved ones and can impact how you see and interact in the world around you,” says Danielle. This philosophy extends beyond romantic relationships, touching every aspect of how individuals interact with the world.
Expertise Across Diverse Therapeutic Areas
Danielle Roxborough brings a wealth of expertise to her practice. As a certified Level 2 Gottman Method Therapist, she applies evidence-based practices that have proven successful in improving relational dynamics. Her experience spans several domains, including codependency and addiction recovery, eating disorders, working with blended families and dating after divorce, and trauma-informed therapy. Whether she is working with couples, families, or individuals struggling with personal growth, Danielle’s comprehensive background enables her to address a wide range of emotional and psychological needs.
One of the major elements that gives Danielle an unique edge is how she attends to her own mental health. In adolescence Danielle was diagnosed with ADHD which is where her therapeutic work to turn her challenges into strengths began. Danielle believes, “As a therapist it is essential to do your own therapeutic work to actively make space for your client’s emotional experience; to be able to step into their internal world and feel what they are feeling…a therapist must be able to keep their own stuff in check to be able to fully be emotionally available to their clients.” Danielle’s journey into therapy began in her adolescence, navigating life with ADHD amidst the high-pressure environment of a Los Angeles high school. Her parents’ vibrant and loving marriage provided a model of stability and health, contrasting sharply with the prevalent culture of divorce among her peers. This foundation, coupled with her early work in her father’s renowned engagement ring business, instilled in Danielle a deep understanding of the dynamics of love and commitment. Danielle identifies her unique therapeutic strengths correlated with ADHD, as the ability to hyperfocus on her practice, her ability to naturally attune with her client’s emotional needs, to be able to problem-solve attentively and efficiently, as well as the ability to recognize behavioral patterns. Danielle describes her ADHD brain function as a supercharge to her abilities as a therapist. “When you’re already wired for meaningful dialogue and connection, and are already prone towards high empathy and hyperfocus, it’s almost like you were born to become a therapist.” Says Danielle. These strengths enable her to also work with neurodivergent and neurotypical clients.
One of the standout features of Love Is a Verb Counseling is Danielle’s commitment to addressing the whole person. Her holistic approach integrates methodologies like Psychoanalytic Theory, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Attachment Based Therapy, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which are designed to tackle both the symptoms of emotional distress and the root causes that often lie beneath. For individuals who have found traditional or App-platform therapy lacking, this integrative approach offers a more comprehensive path to healing.
Danielle’s work is not limited to the therapy room. She is also a facilitator of “The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work” via Gottman Method Therapy, and is on track to be certified in the FairPlay Method, further broadening her toolkit for helping individuals and couples build stronger, more equitable relationships. Her ability to connect with clients on a human personal level, informed by her own journey through therapy, sets the tone for a trusting and productive therapeutic relationship.
Tackling Barriers in Mental Health
While Danielle’s quality of care is a defining feature of Love Is a Verb Counseling, her practice is also distinguished by its commitment to accessibility for those who also identify as neurodivergent. The current mental health system, particularly in the United States, often leaves individuals struggling to access the care they need. Insurance limitations, long waitlists, and impersonal treatment plans create obstacles that can be discouraging. Danielle recognizes these barriers and works to mitigate them, offering telehealth services in addition to in-person sessions and making her expertise available to clients across California.
One of the major challenges in today’s therapy landscape is the lack of personalized care. Insurance companies frequently dictate the terms of treatment, leaving therapists and clients with few options for comprehensive, long-term care. Love Is a Verb Counseling rejects this model. By offering services outside of the constraints of insurance coverage, Danielle ensures that her clients receive the time, attention, and customized treatment they deserve. This commitment to quality over quantity is especially important for clients dealing with complex emotional and relational issues, which require a deeper level of engagement than what is often possible under traditional insurance-based therapy models.
For those seeking relational healing—whether in their own lives or within the context of their personal networks—Danielle’s approach provides a safe and open environment for real growth. The accessibility of her Telehealth options further enhances the reach of her services, particularly in areas where quality mental health care may be limited or unavailable.
A Pathway to Personal Transformation
At its core, Love Is a Verb Counseling is about transformation. Danielle’s approach is deeply personal, built on the understanding that healing is not a one-size-fits-all process. Every individual brings a unique set of experiences, struggles, and aspirations to the table. By creating a space where clients feel empowered to actively participate in their own healing, Danielle helps them break through the barriers that have held them back.
This empowerment is key to the success of her clients, many of whom have made significant changes in their lives as a result of working with her. Whether shifting codependency and addiction dynamics, navigating emotional trauma, navigating dating after divorce or blended family issues, or finding new ways to connect with romantic partners, Danielle’s clients often describe their work together as life-changing. The tools and strategies she provides are not just about getting through tough times—they are about building a foundation for lasting, meaningful change.
Her philosophy that “Love Is a Verb” extends beyond the personal to encompass a broader understanding of human connection. It is about how individuals show up for themselves and for others, in both good times and bad. The active process of love, healing, and growth is at the heart of everything she teaches, providing her clients with the skills to face life’s challenges with confidence and clarity.
Making Therapy Accessible and Effective
In a field where finding quality care can feel like a challenge, Love Is a Verb Counseling offers a model that prioritizes both the couple’ and individual’s needs and the accessibility of services. Danielle’s dedication to providing high-quality, personalized care without the restrictions of insurance limitations sets her apart in the mental health landscape. Her combination of professional expertise and a deeply empathetic approach ensures that clients feel heard and empowered to make real, lasting changes in their lives.
Love Is a Verb Counseling is a testament to the power of action—of taking meaningful steps toward healing, growth, and connection. For anyone seeking to improve their personal well-being and emotional health, Danielle Roxborough’s practice offers an opportunity to redefine what it means to truly live and love.
Published By: Aize Perez
