By: Brent Rodriguez

Author and mental health advocate Ann Russo recently appeared on The Whole View podcast with Stacey Toth to discuss the profound impact of affirming care and the urgent need to combat the harmful effects of conversion therapy. 

As a mental health professional with over two decades of experience, Ann specializes in supporting LGBTQ+ individuals and those navigating the intersections of religion, sexuality, and identity. Her insights during the podcast offered a compelling look into the power of affirming care, the devastation wrought by conversion efforts, and the importance of embracing humanity with compassion.

Understanding Affirming Care: A Path to Healing and Growth

At the heart of Ann’s approach is the concept of affirming care, which she describes as a compassionate and supportive framework for individuals exploring their identities. 

“Affirming care is about being with someone through their experience,” Ann explained. “It’s about providing a safe space for them to process and understand themselves, free from judgment.”

Ann emphasized that affirming care is often misunderstood, stating that it shouldn’t mean rushing into medical interventions. It should instead be about offering spaces where individuals “can explore their feelings, thoughts, and experiences with the guidance of mental health professionals.” 

By addressing the misinformation surrounding affirming care, Ann highlighted its critical role in fostering mental well-being and reducing the harm caused by societal rejection.

Conversion Efforts: Torture, Not Therapy

One of the most powerful moments of the podcast came when Ann shed light on the realities of conversion therapy, which she unequivocally labeled as “conversion torture.” She described the physical and psychological harm inflicted on individuals through practices designed to suppress their identities. 

“It’s far beyond therapy,” Ann said. “We’re talking about physical torture—shocking genitals, administering drugs to induce vomiting at the sight of same-sex attraction, and other methods designed to break a person’s sense of self.”

Ann’s condemnation of these practices was backed by sobering statistics. Studies have shown that LGBTQ+ individuals subjected to conversion therapy are three times more likely to attempt suicide. 

“How can someone walk away from that and feel good about themselves?” Ann asked. “These practices don’t change who people are; they inflict trauma that lasts a lifetime.”

Recognizing the Humanity in Everyone

Throughout the conversation, Ann emphasized the importance of recognizing that members of the LGBTQ+ community are, ultimately, human and should therefore be treated as such. She expressed her confusion towards individuals who are so blinded by their bias and hate, they fail to recognize this.

“This is a human being,” Ann pointed out. “Your actions—whether intentional or not—can harm them. You may be denying someone work, healthcare, or even a home. Please help me understand what you gain from that. Removing other people’s ability to access basic needs isn’t just wrong; it’s dehumanizing.”

Ann’s words underscored the urgency of dismantling systemic barriers and challenging prejudices that perpetuate harm. By fostering empathy and understanding, she believes society can create a more inclusive and supportive environment for all individuals.

Leading with Love: A Simple Yet Powerful Mantra

As the conversation drew to a close, Ann left listeners with a profound call to action: “Lead with love.” 

She elaborated on the significance of this guiding principle, explaining how small, everyday acts of kindness can make a meaningful difference. “Respect people. Smile at them. Ask how they’re doing and truly listen to their responses,” Ann said. “These seemingly simple actions build connection and show people that they matter.”

Ann stressed that fostering a culture of love and respect isn’t about grand gestures but about collective effort. “Our society is only as strong as its most marginalized members,” she said. “If we lift each other up, we all benefit.”

A Beacon of Hope and Advocacy

Ann Russo’s appearance on The Whole View offered a powerful reminder of the importance of affirming care, empathy, and love in building a more inclusive society. Her tireless advocacy for LGBTQ+ individuals and her unwavering commitment to dismantling harmful practices like conversion therapy serves as an inspiration to all who strive to create a world rooted in compassion and understanding.

You can listen to Ann’s full episode on the podcast here. Feel free to reach out to her via the links on her website or click here to subscribe to her newsletter. 

Published by Liana P.