Finding your ideal partner can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack, but fear not, Thomas Anthony and Emyli Lovz have distilled their expertise as dating coaches into three game-changing tips.

These tips not only serve as a compass but also redefine the entire dating experience. Let’s dive into the wisdom that helped Emyli embark on a groundbreaking 100-date experiment leading to marriage and partnership with Thomas, and the creation of the renowned coaching program, Dating Decoded.

1. Define Your Dream Partner:
Before diving into the dating world, take the time to clearly define who your dream person is. Create a detailed profile, an avatar, of your ideal partner. This involves analyzing your values, interests, and long-term goals to identify the qualities that matter most to you. By having a well-defined picture of your dream partner, you can stay focused and make more informed decisions during your dating journey.

2. MegaDate to Find Your Ideal Partner:
Embrace the MegaDating philosophy, which encourages dating prolifically to expose yourself to a variety of people. MegaDating is not about quantity over quality; instead, it’s a strategic approach to quickly explore different connections. By dating multiple people simultaneously, you lower anxiety, improve your dating skills, and refine your understanding of what you truly want in a partner. View dating as an exciting experiment that brings you one step closer to finding your dream partner.

3. Turn Dating into a Fun Experiment:
Transform your dating experience into a social experiment. Instead of viewing it as a stressful task, consider each date as an opportunity to learn more about yourself and what you’re looking for in a partner. By maintaining a sense of curiosity and fun, you’ll not only enjoy the process more but also increase your chances of finding a meaningful connection. Ultimately, the goal is to turn dating into a journey that leads you to your dream partner.

Thomas and Emyli’s Bio:

Emyli Lovz, during her time at UC Berkeley, embarked on a remarkable 100-date experiment that became the foundation for her relationship with Thomas Anthony. Thomas, now her husband and co-founder of emlovz, joined forces with Emyli to share their collective insights on dating. Together, they developed the highly acclaimed coaching program, Dating Decoded, designed for men (and women) seeking meaningful connections.

Recognized as America’s #1 dating coach for men, they have now extended their programs to include women. Their coaching curriculum provides a comprehensive approach to dating, including a lifetime membership with unlimited coaching from their team of experts (including a coach based in NYC). The program covers various aspects such as private mock dates, style sessions, sex and intimacy coaching, anxiety management, Instagram optimization, applied conversation trainings, accountability buddies, and a supportive group of high-achieving singles. The culmination of their experiences has led to a coaching philosophy that transforms dating into an enjoyable and successful journey towards finding one’s dream partner.

Published by: Aly Cinco